How Identifying The Spiritual Background Of Your Will Be Spouse Before Marriage Is Important:
Wives to husbands are help mates.
They were made out of man.
Therefore, bible says the two will come together to be one flesh.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
So it is important to get married but not by force as Apostle Paul spoke about it.
1 Corinthians 7:38
So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better.
But affore marriage, one has to be very careful to check the spiritual background of the will be spouse not about only the appearance.
Many people enter into marriage of which we say “marriage is liken unto a long journey” and they become worried, disappointed,some loose their relationship with the Lord God all because of the other spouse.
What one needs to do now is to check. I will also liken marriage to “the door of no return“.
Stopping or breaking up is with a condition which is stated that “only adultery or death can bring an end to the marriage“.
So if you are a Christian married to a woman who’s actions goes strictly against the words of God, maybe you may feel like bringing the relationship to an end but if the woman has not committed any adultery or died, you don’t have the power to bring the relationship to an end for it is a sin.
It hath been said, Whosoever shall put away his wife, let him give her a writing of divorcement:
But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery.
So imagine, marrying a woman who is ungodly or who eyes and everything are worldly inclined and who is not even ready to change, that person can even bring your level of spirituality or relationship with the Almighty God down or low.
Some people love to enter into the marriage without checking the spiritual background of the will be spouse and this brings about the flesh ruling.
That the sons of God saw the daughters of men that they were fair; and they took them wives of all which they chose.
And the LORD said, My spirit shall not always strive with man, for that he also is flesh: yet his days shall be an hundred and twenty years.
They don’t consider the spiritual life or Christian Life but they just check the beauty or the handsomness. But due to their lust or affections, they miss the mark.
This is where the two unequal yoke comes in.
For the children of Seth feared the Lord and they worshiped Him so they were the children of God but the children or the descendants of Cain were flesh inclined people so the Spirit of the Living God left them.
Beloved becareful with the journey you will be going with that friend, that on earth everlasting journey.
2 Corinthians 6:14-18
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
And what concord hath Christ with Belial? or what part hath he that believeth with an infidel?
And what agreement hath the temple of God with idols? for ye are the temple of the living God; as God hath said, I will dwell in them, and walk in them; and I will be their God, and they shall be my people.
Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing; and I will receive you,
And will be a Father unto you, and ye shall be my sons and daughters, saith the Lord Almighty.
So it happened to Sampson. He had a relationship with Delilah, a woman who was from a country that were against God and God was against so the woman was also ruled by the flesh and wickedness, due to this, Sampson couldn’t complete his course on earth with peace and joy.
We can also check what happened to Solomon the wise man who then died in the temple of gods for the sake of women.
Non of the woman were God fearing and they worshiped gods as well.
Beloved if you are to look at beauty, lust will persuade you to what is unseemly.
You have to becareful about the woman you want to marry, about that boy or man you want to marry.
In post marriage, checking the life of your partner is very important.
God richly bless you all. From today make sure will pray unto the Lord to show unto you who your will be is or if he or she is God’s chosen for your life. Don’t hesitate to pray about it, becareful and enquire of the Lord your God.